I'm tired. I am so tired. I keep going and going and going and no one seems to realize that I am busy, but I just keep going. DH is on my nerves. I can be up to my armpits washing dishes and he can be sitting on the couch watching tv and he will NOT get off his fat ass and let the dogs in or out. He just tunes out their barking until it interferes with his tv, the he yells at them.
Just something simple like letting the dogs out would help me immensely. Or taking DD2 where she needs to go. Honestly, DH comes home at 3pm, eats EVERYTHING he can gets his hands on (forget that dinner is in 2 hours. I refuse to cook dinner at 3pm.) and then plops his fat ass on the couch and watches tv for hours. Or falls asleep on the couch with the tv blasting, and then has the nerve to yell if someone or some dog makes too much noise and wakes him up.
DH is generally a good person, but I cannot stand this about him. If he has a day off, he sleeps most of it away and then the other part he watches tv. Oh, and don't forget the bottomless beer bottle in there too.
And I'm sorry, but he is a pig. He eats anything and everything that isn't nailed down. Except dinner when it is ready at 5pm. DD2 and I usually eat dinner alone. And it annoys me to no end. And if dinner is ready at 6pm, well forget it. The Simpson's are on and he can't miss that. Ever.
I get that he works hard all day and comes home tired, but I work hard too. And just once I would like him to come home, not stuff his face and maybe, just maybe offer to help me with whatever I need help with. God, that would be a dream come true...and he wonders why I don't jump in bed with him every night.
Huh. Guess I needed to vent. LOL. We'll see if I feel better now.
Just something simple like letting the dogs out would help me immensely. Or taking DD2 where she needs to go. Honestly, DH comes home at 3pm, eats EVERYTHING he can gets his hands on (forget that dinner is in 2 hours. I refuse to cook dinner at 3pm.) and then plops his fat ass on the couch and watches tv for hours. Or falls asleep on the couch with the tv blasting, and then has the nerve to yell if someone or some dog makes too much noise and wakes him up.
DH is generally a good person, but I cannot stand this about him. If he has a day off, he sleeps most of it away and then the other part he watches tv. Oh, and don't forget the bottomless beer bottle in there too.
And I'm sorry, but he is a pig. He eats anything and everything that isn't nailed down. Except dinner when it is ready at 5pm. DD2 and I usually eat dinner alone. And it annoys me to no end. And if dinner is ready at 6pm, well forget it. The Simpson's are on and he can't miss that. Ever.
I get that he works hard all day and comes home tired, but I work hard too. And just once I would like him to come home, not stuff his face and maybe, just maybe offer to help me with whatever I need help with. God, that would be a dream come true...and he wonders why I don't jump in bed with him every night.
Huh. Guess I needed to vent. LOL. We'll see if I feel better now.
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OH my friend, how I know exactly what you are talking about. I went through this for years and no amount of kicking and screaming did a damn bit of good. When it was too late he decided we needed to go to counseling and all this was brought up and his response was....."but you never said anything." ARGHHH.....MEN!! I have to admit, it made me LOL so vent away. It makes for some entertaining reading, unlike menstrual cycles. :)
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